Year 7 · RSHE and PSHE · Mental wellbeing and friendships · Lesson 3
Healthy friendships and peer pressure
Healthy and unhealthy friendships, peer pressure (direct, unspoken and positive), saying no, passive/aggressive/assertive responses, ‘I’ statements and sorting out fallouts.

17-minute video lesson
Teaching, worked examples and 20 practice questions solved step by step.
Watch free for a monthWhat your child will learn
- Recognise healthy and unhealthy friendships
- Explain peer pressure
- Use strategies to say no
- Respond assertively and resolve conflict
The method
- Calm down.
- Listen.
- ‘I’ statement.
- Fair solution.
Key words: friendship, peer pressure, assertive, passive, aggressive, I statement, conflict.
Worked examples
The first three practice questions from the lesson, with every step.
Question 1
Name two qualities of a good friend.
- Step 1: Trust
Answer: trust, honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect
Question 2
Give one sign of an unhealthy friendship.
- Step 1: Put-downs
Answer: put-downs / pressure / control / leaving you out
Question 3
What is peer pressure?
- Step 1: Fit in
Answer: feeling pushed to do something to fit in with people your age